Do it or not? really giving me a headache! please your assessment?
my ex was a medical student with me; he broke up with me after he get engaged to another girl . last time i contacted him was a year ago when i call him and yelled (a) him and wished him the worst ,
just to consent to you know; he was always verbally wounding and i kept treating him with love; but when he told me i am not the one for him ; i kept questioning why he is doing this to me; he said i was a moment ago there to please myself sexually and meant nothing to him; and if i required he can hook me up (for sex) purporses with his cousin. i kept crying he said i was pathetic near no dignity and i was not crazy but insane
now the question is ; contained by order for me to apply to a job i have to do volunteer work and the hospital that i hold high chances of getting accepted (a) is affiliated next to the hospital he works at, do i go there or not, i dont want to see him again; do i apply to another hospital but have lower probability or getting accepted; or do i give him the satisfaction of seeing me single; only like he said that i will be a single doctor, because of my career choice and personality
Answers:
Join a hospital of your choice and concentrate on your noble profession.Ignore all others
He's not worth it.
In a perfect world, turn to the hospital with higher chances.
This is not, so since he's nearby, he might just ***** about you to the people in that.
If your art is going to depend on a minor falling out over a casual affair I am not sure you should even be a doctor. you are not showing the maturity a patient would expect.
You have a fight with someone who sounds horrible. Looking back, I am sure you agree you should enjoy acted with dignity and simply ignored him.
Go for the same hospital. you may find he have changed and is now a normal colleague. If he has no, it is natural, ignore him except in a professional capacity. Act near dignity, do not get involved in name-calling, do not discuss with other colleagues and work not easy at your chosen career.
Grampa John
BE BOLD!
ITS NOT ONLY THAT SHAMELESS' HOSPITAL.
ITS YOUR LIFE.
I'm with you.
I bring the impression that you have internalized all of this criticism and enjoy even begun to believe it.
So lets start with your attitude.
YOU own nothing to be ashamed of.
His crap, and that is the kind possession for his crap, holds no truth. You were not there for your own sexual pleasure and you certainly are not some sort of prostitute to be offered to his cousin.
His attitude that you are somehow heartbreaking and insane because you allowed yourself to fall in love with him and proffer your physical love as a part of that is disgusting and dispicable.
It is less than human and frankly it frightens the hell out of me to reason that this guy will be responsible for patient care. He obviously view women as chattel and some sort of commodity which can be damaged.
Apparently he also does not subscribe to the theory that "you break it you bought it".
All this being said you must adopt that this guy was, and is, a major jerk.
At this point he should enjoy absolutely no ability to make you be aware of shame any longer.
So this becomes your greatest revenge.
Go to that hospital where he works, be confident, self assured and do not let the bastard grasp you down. When you eventually run into him
calmly say hello and move on. The greatest payback will be that you will become that single doctor near career, skills and an understanding of humanity and feelings. It will sort you the better physician in the long run. In the meantime you might very well join a person who loves you for what you are and not what he thinks is the epitome of womenhood.
You do know that you represent everything that he is incapable of handling in a woman which includes intellegence, job, independence and dare I say equality.
He needs to enjoy some subserviant little mouse who will do whatever he says no matter how discourteous and demeaning. Those women may be available but they are not you.
Celebrate that and remove his power to to keep you feeling ashamed.
Go to the place with the greatest opportunity.
Do your best most confident work.
Any fulfilment he may have will leave when he sees that he have lost his hold on you through shame. You have nothing to be ashamed for.
I suspect he may run his mouth about your moral or anything.
When his peers see how wrong he is he will lose his credibility.
When he figures that out you will have won.
DO IT! are you kidding.. if he thinks of you as a short time ago an accessory for his own pleasure that he shouldn't care if your in equal hospital and neither should you!
It sound to me like he was zilch but a bad partner and you deserve better, pus if this is about your career you should of late do it..
don't worry about whether you see him or not.. hospitals are BIG places and you should feel confident within yourself because you know that you are better of with out him!
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just to consent to you know; he was always verbally wounding and i kept treating him with love; but when he told me i am not the one for him ; i kept questioning why he is doing this to me; he said i was a moment ago there to please myself sexually and meant nothing to him; and if i required he can hook me up (for sex) purporses with his cousin. i kept crying he said i was pathetic near no dignity and i was not crazy but insane
now the question is ; contained by order for me to apply to a job i have to do volunteer work and the hospital that i hold high chances of getting accepted (a) is affiliated next to the hospital he works at, do i go there or not, i dont want to see him again; do i apply to another hospital but have lower probability or getting accepted; or do i give him the satisfaction of seeing me single; only like he said that i will be a single doctor, because of my career choice and personality
Answers:
Join a hospital of your choice and concentrate on your noble profession.Ignore all others
He's not worth it.
In a perfect world, turn to the hospital with higher chances.
This is not, so since he's nearby, he might just ***** about you to the people in that.
If your art is going to depend on a minor falling out over a casual affair I am not sure you should even be a doctor. you are not showing the maturity a patient would expect.
You have a fight with someone who sounds horrible. Looking back, I am sure you agree you should enjoy acted with dignity and simply ignored him.
Go for the same hospital. you may find he have changed and is now a normal colleague. If he has no, it is natural, ignore him except in a professional capacity. Act near dignity, do not get involved in name-calling, do not discuss with other colleagues and work not easy at your chosen career.
Grampa John
BE BOLD!
ITS NOT ONLY THAT SHAMELESS' HOSPITAL.
ITS YOUR LIFE.
I'm with you.
I bring the impression that you have internalized all of this criticism and enjoy even begun to believe it.
So lets start with your attitude.
YOU own nothing to be ashamed of.
His crap, and that is the kind possession for his crap, holds no truth. You were not there for your own sexual pleasure and you certainly are not some sort of prostitute to be offered to his cousin.
His attitude that you are somehow heartbreaking and insane because you allowed yourself to fall in love with him and proffer your physical love as a part of that is disgusting and dispicable.
It is less than human and frankly it frightens the hell out of me to reason that this guy will be responsible for patient care. He obviously view women as chattel and some sort of commodity which can be damaged.
Apparently he also does not subscribe to the theory that "you break it you bought it".
All this being said you must adopt that this guy was, and is, a major jerk.
At this point he should enjoy absolutely no ability to make you be aware of shame any longer.
So this becomes your greatest revenge.
Go to that hospital where he works, be confident, self assured and do not let the bastard grasp you down. When you eventually run into him
calmly say hello and move on. The greatest payback will be that you will become that single doctor near career, skills and an understanding of humanity and feelings. It will sort you the better physician in the long run. In the meantime you might very well join a person who loves you for what you are and not what he thinks is the epitome of womenhood.
You do know that you represent everything that he is incapable of handling in a woman which includes intellegence, job, independence and dare I say equality.
He needs to enjoy some subserviant little mouse who will do whatever he says no matter how discourteous and demeaning. Those women may be available but they are not you.
Celebrate that and remove his power to to keep you feeling ashamed.
Go to the place with the greatest opportunity.
Do your best most confident work.
Any fulfilment he may have will leave when he sees that he have lost his hold on you through shame. You have nothing to be ashamed for.
I suspect he may run his mouth about your moral or anything.
When his peers see how wrong he is he will lose his credibility.
When he figures that out you will have won.
DO IT! are you kidding.. if he thinks of you as a short time ago an accessory for his own pleasure that he shouldn't care if your in equal hospital and neither should you!
It sound to me like he was zilch but a bad partner and you deserve better, pus if this is about your career you should of late do it..
don't worry about whether you see him or not.. hospitals are BIG places and you should feel confident within yourself because you know that you are better of with out him!
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