How do I sort out these inner health?
I'm 21, almost a senior in college, and know I have my whole duration in front of me. I'm even studying abroad this semester in Europe.
Yet, as much as I try to be pleased, I can't. I don't really like the term happiness. (It's such an arbitrary word...the most we can ask for contained by life are moments of joy and some kind of inner peace.) I also thought that the more one strives for happiness as a goal, the more one becomes wretched.
I've shunned relationships all my life because I haven't been interested. I don't resembling how our society emphasizes relationships so much and acts like they're a prerequisite for anyone happy. Another reason I shun relationships is that I enjoy thoughtful of being different, in that I don't need relationships to be jolly in life.
But I haven't found that inner peace yet. I want my natural life to mean something, yet I know in the running out, we're all going to die.
So, how did you find meaning?
There are moments that I am content. I do love to laugh and fashion jokes...so I'm not all doom and gloom. But this consciousness is always in the back of my mind.
I know that my thoughts create this trueness and suffering. Yet as much as I try, this feeling won't lift.
Answers:
With 'sorting out your feelings' you want to clear up yourself? You want to value what is virtuous and what doesn't serve you? Or is it that you want to know more about the 'feeling in the back of your mind' and you don't know from what it is cause?
To sort out something, you need a reference point. Right? That means that you hold given a certain condition your preference. Now, from where you give the value to something? Who is judging? This entity has gotten their measurements from somewhere! From where on earth? You might be the victim of manipulation through your education or your cultural background. Or you have some traumatic experiences in your childhood... What ever has happened, it might own programmed you, so that your response to what shows up is determinate by your unconscious background. The first step to sort out your feelings contained by an objective way and not only giving something a helpfulness that seems to be good for you, you need to be aware of your valuation system. The subsequent step would be that you not only observe your own reactions surrounded by an untouched, not identified way, but also the expression or reaction that comes from the outside that causes your reaction and makes you feel this way. When you relate and respond to happenings and reaction coming from inside or outside out of your cleared up personal background, then you will not need to want that your energy has meaning and you will not need to wish for it, the meaning will be there: your life is the explanation...
Then this 'feeling in the back of your mind' that was a reminder to stir to the depth of your being and not let you being caught within the fake distractions of the world, - will disappear, for sure.
The other points of your question I have answered within your other question so I can skip this here.
I hope this gives some light to your cross-examine. Then this would also give meaning to me...
BeiYin
PS: Yahoo Answers is a good space for asking question, but one shouldn't expect too much. There can't be an answer if you haven't the 'best answer' already within yourself. What shows up here only can trigger it, - giving you food for thoughts, - nothing can be forced...
I suggest that you use the pick to respond to answers writing comments or additional questions in the 'additional details' of your examine. Then a kind of exchange can happen, making it more interesting and helpful. I must utter that responding only to the answer, without knowing how it is received, let me sometimes surface like calling into empty space and not causing an reverberate... I might be wrong, but with you I sense that you understand what I'm writing even you don't express yourself in a feedback. Source(s): http://falconblanco.com
Maybe you can't find great pleasure because you aren't interested in relationships.
Its important to have a friend or loved one. I judge you may be scared thats why you stay away from relationships.
Its obviously affecting you so its a problem.
There is no secret road to find meaning. Its different for each individual
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Yet, as much as I try to be pleased, I can't. I don't really like the term happiness. (It's such an arbitrary word...the most we can ask for contained by life are moments of joy and some kind of inner peace.) I also thought that the more one strives for happiness as a goal, the more one becomes wretched.
I've shunned relationships all my life because I haven't been interested. I don't resembling how our society emphasizes relationships so much and acts like they're a prerequisite for anyone happy. Another reason I shun relationships is that I enjoy thoughtful of being different, in that I don't need relationships to be jolly in life.
But I haven't found that inner peace yet. I want my natural life to mean something, yet I know in the running out, we're all going to die.
So, how did you find meaning?
There are moments that I am content. I do love to laugh and fashion jokes...so I'm not all doom and gloom. But this consciousness is always in the back of my mind.
I know that my thoughts create this trueness and suffering. Yet as much as I try, this feeling won't lift.
Answers:
With 'sorting out your feelings' you want to clear up yourself? You want to value what is virtuous and what doesn't serve you? Or is it that you want to know more about the 'feeling in the back of your mind' and you don't know from what it is cause?
To sort out something, you need a reference point. Right? That means that you hold given a certain condition your preference. Now, from where you give the value to something? Who is judging? This entity has gotten their measurements from somewhere! From where on earth? You might be the victim of manipulation through your education or your cultural background. Or you have some traumatic experiences in your childhood... What ever has happened, it might own programmed you, so that your response to what shows up is determinate by your unconscious background. The first step to sort out your feelings contained by an objective way and not only giving something a helpfulness that seems to be good for you, you need to be aware of your valuation system. The subsequent step would be that you not only observe your own reactions surrounded by an untouched, not identified way, but also the expression or reaction that comes from the outside that causes your reaction and makes you feel this way. When you relate and respond to happenings and reaction coming from inside or outside out of your cleared up personal background, then you will not need to want that your energy has meaning and you will not need to wish for it, the meaning will be there: your life is the explanation...
Then this 'feeling in the back of your mind' that was a reminder to stir to the depth of your being and not let you being caught within the fake distractions of the world, - will disappear, for sure.
The other points of your question I have answered within your other question so I can skip this here.
I hope this gives some light to your cross-examine. Then this would also give meaning to me...
BeiYin
PS: Yahoo Answers is a good space for asking question, but one shouldn't expect too much. There can't be an answer if you haven't the 'best answer' already within yourself. What shows up here only can trigger it, - giving you food for thoughts, - nothing can be forced...
I suggest that you use the pick to respond to answers writing comments or additional questions in the 'additional details' of your examine. Then a kind of exchange can happen, making it more interesting and helpful. I must utter that responding only to the answer, without knowing how it is received, let me sometimes surface like calling into empty space and not causing an reverberate... I might be wrong, but with you I sense that you understand what I'm writing even you don't express yourself in a feedback. Source(s): http://falconblanco.com
Maybe you can't find great pleasure because you aren't interested in relationships.
Its important to have a friend or loved one. I judge you may be scared thats why you stay away from relationships.
Its obviously affecting you so its a problem.
There is no secret road to find meaning. Its different for each individual
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